Intimidated and manipulated in IEP meeting in Kansas

Several educators surround the parent and present their plan for the child for the year, based on the school’s staff schedules and the number of other children who also need services.

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Parents can get more control

The parent asks for additional time in a service area and is quickly told that wouldn’t fit with the schedule.  Parent expresses concern that the child is getting left behind.

This was another “rubber stamped” meeting where the educators worked to just get through the meeting. As long as the parent is not assertive, the student may likely stagnate.

The March 2017 US Supreme Court decision was clear; children with IEPs are to have challenging objectives.

Advocates at TheIEPCenter.com™ help parents solve schooling problems by providing information so they can advocate for the child with special needs. Schools often don’t put plans into place legitimately unless a parent pursues action. Action can involve systems outside of the school district. Congress has many of these in place just for parents!  If the public doesn’t use them, then the “powers that be” assume there are no problems.

It’s what a parent doesn’t know that can deprive children of needed services.  We go to  school meetings with parents.AngelsenseRunnerJPEG

Don’t be bamboozled!  Waiting and hoping for problems to go away allows our children to regress.  Hoping the problem will go away will only delay getting the problem addressed.  Waiting too long to address concerns eliminates opportunities for correction.  Parents can have more control than they often realize!

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who to take to IEP meeting in Kansas

Parents:  you can invite people to attend your child’s IEP meeting.  We are not aware of any regulation that requires parents to inform the public school whom a parent brings.  Parents have more control over planning our child’s schooling than we often realize!

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One of the most overlooked people to invite is the paraprofessional(s) who work with the student.  Parents can notify the special ed administrator in advance that the parent is inviting the para.  Often the para is the person at the school who knows the child the best.

Districts’ sometimes place a heavy burden on paras, especially when the para has no skills related to the disability.  Paras usually go through a “training”, however it is often unrelated to our child’s special need(s). Often paras never see the IEP document.

Many times the para is not a good match for a student and problems arise.  Parents can find ways to privately talk to a para about what’s going on at school.

The more information a parent has before entering an IEP meeting, the better they can make informed decisions.  A parent’s  failure to ask the right questions in an IEP meeting may result in the child getting “left behind”.

If the public school district in Kansas is uncooperative, contact the advocates at The IEPCenter.com™ (parents can take an advocate as well).

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We are civil rights advocates.    We are not attorneys and do not give legal advice.  We do not represent parents or children.  We are not licensed to practice law in any state. Consult an attorney.  Nothing in this blog is to be considered legal advice.

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Choosing education advocate for special ed students in Kansas

Parents continue to “hope” that things will work out in multiple IEP meetings when they attend alone, yet  years pass.  Parents often get stuck when they don’t have the information necessary to work the “system”.  Unable to address the hidden agenda in school meetings, the child gets left behind.

rsz_meeting7Taking an advocate to an IEP meeting is often helpful. But which advocate?

First, a parent must understand an independent advocate is different from case managers, mentors and “parent trainers” who have expertise in their respective areas but usually do not exclusively work in the special education  arena.  This can be compared to taking a dentist with you for support when you are having open heart surgery.  They might go to a meeting for free; but remember the saying “you get what you pay for”. There are pitfalls these folks aren’t aware.  Many of them inadvertently help the school along.  Ask who pays for their involvement.   They may leave the IEP believing changes were made for the better; yet that day’s battle was won but the war was lost.AngelsenseRunnerJPEG

Second, other folks represent themselves as an “advocate” yet lack experience.  Real experience by an accomplished advocate is essential for the parent who needs information about complex situations.  Also, membership in national professional advocate associations is an indicator the person has more background and keeps current. We are not the KSDE-trained education advocates; don’t be confused. We are civil rights advocates.

Also, the writer of this blog also has a teaching certificate, taught in both public and private schools,  and testified to the legislature about the need for change in the special ed system in Missouri resulting in due process reform.  Ask your advocate the extent of their commitment to systemic change in the state. She keeps current in cutting-edge parent strategies and is a member of a national organization since 1999. She has previous experience working in a law firm which represented parents.  She served as a due process hearing panel member from 1996-2013.   Check out our website for more information about this advocate.

Using an independent professional advocate can provide the information that allows a parent to cut through the confusion presented by the IEP team and spare months of frustration and absences from employment.  IEP teams are often ignorant about the possibilities for a student.  Delay is problematic.  In Kansas call 913 210 1200.

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IEP meetings in Kansas go nowhere for special education student

Student struggles with going to public school and doesn’t want to go anymore.  Parent requests and attends IEP meetings where solutions offered are not addressing student’s needs.  Repeated meetings do not lead to productive outcomes. rsz_meeting7

One way to avoid repeated fruitless IEP meetings is to take it out of that sphere and to a level where the players are different, the parent  has more clout, and the game is differentmediation. Congress put mediation in place for us (parents) and it’s where parents can allow the district to “make up” for the district’s past errors.  A mediator is provided free by the state.  MEDIATION IS NOT LIKE AN IEP MEETING!

Parents who had more than one meeting over the same topics with no positive results can consider mediation–it’s relatively quick compared to other approaches.

Contact our advocates who are experienced in supporting parents before and during mediation.  Setting up mediation can be tricky!  It’s what parents don’t know that deprive our children of services.

Some districts are difficult to work with, and make it difficult for parents to navigate.  That’s where the advocates at The IEP Center ™ can help. We help parents over the phone, and, often in one hour empower the parent!   Don’t let another semester go by with a child struggling needlessly. To get started, visit the website to set up a one-hour phone consult  www.theiepcenter.com

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Special Education Parent’s Advocacy Link LLC dba The IEP Center™ provides information to parents regarding the problems of children with disabilities.  We are not attorneys and do not give advice.  We do not represent parents or children.  Consult an attorney.  We are civil rights, non-attorney advocates.

We help parents at low-cost.  We help parents prepare for school meetings and also go to mediation and IEP meetings with parents.  Go to our website to set a telephone consult.

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Kansas special ed student with ADHD, anxiety and depression

Student struggles continuously in social situations, especially at recess and unstructured settings (library, lunch); sometimes picked on by other children and teased at recess.

Parents have done their best over the years and child sees outside psychological rsz_withbook-300x198boyinlibraryprofessional regularly.  That “system” has provided the parents with terms like “ADHD”, “depression”, “anxiety”.

Many times in the public school “system”, these children are found eligible for special education under an eligibility category called “Other Health Impaired” (OHI).  Other students may be eligible for accommodations under a “504” plan.

However, in the mainstream, some of these children are considered to be affected by “Asperger Syndrome”.  Wikipedia provides a definition worth pondering. Multiple, beneficial resources of information exist for parents and schools of these children.

AngelsenseRunnerJPEG  Don’t let your child miss out on lifetime skills! Many IEP teams don’t know to include these into the child’s program.  The advocates at The IEP Center™ help parents deal with the school for our kids’ with special needs.

Advocates at The IEP Center help parents solve IEP problems by providing information so they can advocate for the child with special needs at the public school.  Don’t be bamboozled!  Waiting and hoping for problems to go away allows our children to regress.  Hoping the problem will go away will only delay the problem.

Never go alone to an IEP meeting; our advocates are available!  913-210-1200

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Special Education Parent’s Advocacy Link LLC dba The IEP Center™ provides information to parents regarding the problems of children with disabilities. We are civil rights advocates for parents of children with disabilities.   We are not attorneys and do not give advice.  Consult an attorney. We are not licensed to practice law in any state.

We help parents at low-cost.  We help parents prepare for school meetings and also go to mediation and IEP meetings with parents.

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